What Men really want



    by stupd_comn_man

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    1. Lopsided_Drag_8125 on

      I’m too young to be this depressed and suicidal. I would do almost anything for this

    2. jess_the_werefox on

      Read some post somewhere years ago about a woman who washed her husband’s hair and gave him a scalp and temple massage, and noticed he was silently crying. She didn’t draw attention to it (at least in that moment) because of how sensitive and vulnerable the moment was. I think about that every now and then, how boys and men are just… left to fend for themselves. No affection. It makes me so fucking sad and angry.

    3. WolverineXForce on

      I thought this is a meme sub ? I come here to laugh, not feel. We men really need a hug sometimes, but we usually dont get it. And we dream about moments like these…

    4. PurpoUpsideDownJuice on

      Meanwhile, women think guys who want this are gay and wonder why you don’t wanna be balls deep in her 24/7. Because women think “real” men are only stupid and horny and liking anything other than pussy makes you gay

    5. Yes and it’s starting to get to the point that if she doesn’t scratch my head I can’t sleep

    6. Ofc we cannot approach anyone outside a dating app setting without the fear of being called a creep or being laughed at.

      I love being me sometimes 😉

    7. ActiveAltruistic8615 on

      A woman who can be in her feminine energy and feels secure, she is going to nurture the relationship and most likely give you this.
      A man has to be in his masculine energy and this means not being a complete alpha, sigma or whatever letter, nor a compelete wimp.

      The woman needs to be more in the feminine energy instead of her masculine. This means she shouldn’t have the feeling of needing to do everything on her own, to be strong all the time etc… This energy of doing and safety is masculine and shouldn’t be dominant in the woman if you want her to be soft like this.

      And when the man is more in his masculine energy than feminine (both energies are needed in man and woman, yet they have to be balanced to work) he will give the woman the feeling of being safe, loved, supported and that she can be soft with him.

      A good sign somebody is making your inner child feel safe, is when you can fall asleep next to them easily. (For example on the couch while cuddling).

    8. Women will say this is “babying” but they will do this for a 6’2 handsome guy with a defined jawline…

    9. SnooRecipes7769 on

      “Perhaps one did not want to be loved so much as to be understood.”

      George Orwell

    10. ChalkCoatedDonut on

      A woman to take care of your 2000s spiky hair? You having a Papa Roach concert to attend to, boy?

    11. Boys or girls I’ve seen most people really want to sleep while hugging. I remember first time a girl slept in my arms as I hugged her from behind.

      I didn’t close my eyes, I didn’t move, didn’t think about the future, didn’t think about the past. For the first time in my existence I didn’t want to miss a second of reality. That never happens to me.

      I felt terrible for years after she broke up with me, to be honest we were not even dating, I was just a side project of hers.

      Now that a lot of time passed, I can finally isolate what little good that relationship gave me from all the bad. Shouldn’t have been so hard on myself. So full of myself to think I was above being such a fool.

      I should have realized when it comes to decisions in life there is no point looking back. The die is cast, you were hoping for sixes and you rolled snake eyes, there really is nothing more to think about what has already happened. Should’ve realized this years ago.

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